Episode 1
1. Your Brain is Keeping You Broke (And How Rich Girls Think Different)
Learn why your bank account isn't reflecting your strategy skills...it's reflecting your identity programming.
Alyssa breaks down the brutal neuroscience of why smart women stay stuck and reveals how rich girls accidentally programmed their brains for abundance while everyone else is still running on survival-mode software.
Warning: This episode will make you realize your biggest business problem isn't your offer, it's your operating system.
Transcript
Hey, beautiful humans and
welcome to the Rich Girl Reset.
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:I'm Alyssa, and if you're listening
to this, you're probably tired of your
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:brain acting like a broke ass bouncer
at the door of your own success.
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:You know that feeling when you
know you should raise your prices,
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:but your brain's like, actually,
let's just charge $100 and pray.
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:They don't ask for a refund or.
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:When you're about to post that offer,
and suddenly your nervous system decides,
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:now is the perfect time to convince you
that everyone will think you're a fraud.
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:Yeah.
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:That's what we're fixing today, and I'm
not just going to philosophize about it.
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:I'm actually going to give you
some of the exact tools I use to
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:rewire this in real time because
here's the thing, nobody tells you.
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:Your bank account isn't
reflecting your strategy skills.
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:It's reflecting your identity programming.
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:And if your internal operating system
is still running on humble and grateful
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:to be here while you're trying to build
an empire, good freaking luck with that.
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:Let's get uncomfortably
honest for a second.
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:You're probably listening to this
because you're smart as hell.
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:You've consumed more business
strategy than a Wall Street
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:intern on Adderall, and yet.
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:Your results are giving, trying
really hard energy instead of
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:effortlessly magnetic energy.
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:And before your brain starts with
the, I just need to work harder.
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:Narrative stop.
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:That's like trying to fix a wifi
connection by screaming at your laptop.
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:The problem isn't your work ethic.
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:The problem is your brain is literally
wired to keep you at your current level.
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:Here's what's actually happening
Every time you level up.
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:Your subconscious goes into full
panic mode because success feels
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:dangerous to a brain that was
programmed for survival, not abundance.
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:Think about it like this.
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:If you grew up watching your
parents stress about money, your
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:brain learned that having money
equals stress and problems.
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:So now every time you're about to
make more money, your subconscious
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:helpfully sabotages you to keep you safe.
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:In broke, but familiar territory, it's
like having a really well-meaning,
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:but deeply traumatized security guard
who thinks the way to protect you
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:is to never let you leave the house.
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:Now let's talk about how actual
wealthy people think, because
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:this shit will blow your mind.
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:Rich people don't think about money
the way broke people think about
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:money, and I'm not talking about the
fake woke money is just energy bs.
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:I'm talking about actual neurological
differences in how their brains
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:process financial decisions.
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:When a broke person
sees a $5,000 price tag.
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:Their brain immediately goes
to, that's so much money.
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:Who do they think they are?
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:When a rich person sees a $5,000
price tag, their brain goes, what
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:transformation does this provide,
and is it worth the investment?
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:See the difference?
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:One brain is focused on the cost,
the other is focused on the value.
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:One brain sees money as scarce,
the other sees money as a tool.
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:This isn't because rich people
are inherently different humans.
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:It's because their nervous systems
have been conditioned to feel
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:safe at higher financial levels.
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:Here's where it gets interesting.
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:The fastest way to change your financial
reality isn't to learn more strategies.
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:It's to become someone who naturally
operates at a higher level.
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:Rich girl energy isn't about having money.
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:It's about having the nervous
system capacity to hold
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:money without freaking out.
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:And listen, I'm not just going
to leave you hanging with theory.
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:I'm going to give you a taste of what
real subconscious rewiring sounds like.
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:It's called a quantum quickie.
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:Basically, a 10 minute brain hack that
gets you out of your head and into action.
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:Consider this your gateway drug to
actually changing your neural pathways
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:instead of just thinking about it.
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:Think about the most successful
woman, you know, I guarantee she's
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:not constantly questioning her prices,
apologizing for her success, or worried
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:that people will think she's too much.
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:She's operating from a completely
different identity baseline.
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:She's not trying to convince anyone.
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:She's valuable.
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:She knows she's valuable.
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:She's not hoping someone will choose her.
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:She's deciding if they're
the right fit for her.
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:She's not grateful that
someone might pay her.
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:She's confident that working with
her is going to change their life.
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:This isn't arrogance.
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:This is what happens when your
identity matches your ambition.
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:Okay, now here's why.
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:Your current programming
is keeping you stuck.
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:Let me guess.
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:You've tried the vision boards,
the affirmations, the fake it
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:till you make it approach, and
maybe it worked for like a week.
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:Then your brain was
like cute vision board.
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:But we're going back to our
regularly scheduled programming
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:of self-doubt and undercharging.
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:That's because you can't think
your way into a new identity.
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:You have to rewire it at
the nervous system level.
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:Your subconscious doesn't
care about your vision board.
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:It cares about what
feels familiar and safe.
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:And if familiar and safe means
struggling, guess what pattern
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:it's going to keep you in.
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:This is exactly why I created something
called the Wealth Drip series because your
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:brain needs consistent reprogramming, not
just weakened warrior mindset sessions.
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:Imagine rewiring your relationship
with money while you're
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:literally washing your hair.
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:This is why some people can consume
the exact same business strategies
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:and get completely different results.
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:It's not about the strategy.
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:It's about whether their internal
operating system can actually execute
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:that strategy without triggering
a full nervous system revolt.
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:So here's what we're going to
do over these three episodes.
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:We're going to start rewiring your
brain for rich girl energy from the
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:inside out, not fake manifesting
abundance energy, real embodied nervous
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:system level shifts that make success
feel natural instead of terrifying.
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:In episode two, we're diving into
the rich girl operating system.
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:The actual neurological differences
between how successful women think
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:and how everyone else thinks.
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:Spoiler alert, it has nothing to do
with positive thinking and everything
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:to do with nervous system regulation.
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:And in episode three, I'm giving
you the exact protocol to start
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:installing this new operating system.
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:Plus I'll be sharing some of the specific
tools from the Rich Girl Reset bundle.
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:Including that wealth drip track I
mentioned and a powerful EFT session,
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:I call imposter syndrome SmackDown.
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:That's like having a therapist, a business
coach, and a hype woman all rolled
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:into one 15 minute audio experience.
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:But for now, I want you to
start paying attention to your
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:own financial programming.
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:Notice what thoughts come up
when you see someone charging
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:what you wish you could charge.
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:Notice what happens in your body when
you think about doubling your prices.
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:Notice the stories your brain
tells you about money and success.
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:Don't try to change anything yet.
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:Just notice awareness is the first
step to transformation, and if you're
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:already feeling some resistance to
what I've shared today, good, that
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:means we're hitting the right spots.
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:Your programming doesn't like being
called out, but that's exactly
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:how we know what needs to shift.
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:In the next episode, we're going deeper
into how rich girls actually think.
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:And spoiler alert, it's going to make you
realize why you've been making business
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:so much harder than it needs to be.
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:Oh, and if you're thinking, damn, I need
these tools now, the Rich Girl reset
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:bundle is exactly what it sounds like.
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:All the tools I'm mentioning in
this series to start rewiring your
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:brain from Broke girl survival
mode to rich girl creation mode.
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:Because why wait for transformation
when you could start today?
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:I'll see you there at Rich Girl.